Tuesday, September 29, 2015

                                                    VALUATING FOR VALUES
We all have set of values that form the crux of our character. With heavy doses of ups and downs, good sprinkles of challenges and tests and garnishing of peace and satisfactions life comes up as a surprising recipe each day. But with the right values to live by life can be more satisfactory, rewarding and meaningful. Is it the values of life that bring us together? Or may be drive us apart. A lot of people have different beliefs as to what the values of life are. The importance of positive values in life is something nobody can honestly disagree with.
Positive values are important because they allow us to have an overall feeling of peace and joy and can give meaning and purpose to our life. We are able to direct our behavior towards beneficial and fulfilling activities. We will have a clear conscience because we can respect our self. Human habits are a tough nut to crack but like any tasty nut in a hard shell, it is very rewarding to break through the barrier holding you back. A powerful way to reach inside and create good values is to learn why we do, what we do.
When the things that you do and the way you behave match your values, life is usually good , but when these don’t align with your personal values, that’s when things feel…..wrong. This can be a real cause of unhappiness. This is why making a conscience effect to identify your values is so important. So take the time to understand the real priorities in your life and you will be able to determine the best direction for you and your life goals. In short worry about what you do, not what you say.
A life without values is a life wasted. They sure help you breeze through all the trials and tribulations that you may face through the course of your life.

Try them and find out for yourself. Now----in this life…..is the time for preparation…..What is your Life…..What you Value.

Tuesday, September 30, 2014



I become quite surprised that people judge other people based on the work they have done in the past or based on their own opinion based on their likes and dislikes. One really can’t do that as life is a process of change and evolution. People grow and learn.

Sometimes in life we reach a point where one does not want to go ahead with anything in one life. I think it is at this precipice that what kind of  person you want to be and that is when you discover yourself, you take yourself out of that equation and start focusing outwards, conquer your mind, which keeps saying ‘NO’ and you try to push yourself forward.

Ask yourself….what can I do about it right now/how can I make my life better and the answers come .Do every single thing that you don’t feel like doing .Every single thing that you do not feel like doing. Every single thing you don’t feel like doing….do it. Mental muscle is a fantastic aspect if you form a blue print in your head. Just start thinking that there is nothing that can happen in my life that will affect me negatively. Believe that even the most disastrous thing can only put you down for not more than 10 minutes. There will be a point in a life when the model of your world may change and you may not be able to see the way forward. Because you have been looking at it in a way that you have been trained to look at it.

You have grown up with a philosophy of work hard, gain success has a family and that is equal to happiness.

But the model breaks and you have to realize that you have to be happy first and all the other things will follow.

Love should never disempower you. If you are loyal to anything in your life, it could be your career or to a person, it pays back no matter what. Don’t fear Being Human.

All our life we close ourselves and try to protect ourselves too much, so much so that one turn into being this Nice Person….There is a big difference between Nice and Good person. A nice person will be nice to be every one …why? Because that person wants everyone to like him/her as he/she thinks that he/she has so many flaws and she/he is not good enough and does not have any self esteem or self worth so he/she has to be nice to everyone as he/she wants to love or like him/her.

Nice people always suffer all their lives as they will be pleasing other all the time and will tire themselves completely. A good person has his/her self worth, does good for everyone but will never please. He/she is there to go good to everyone and does the right thing.



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