Tuesday, April 9, 2013



Doing whatever we have done, we are will continue to get what we have got. So to live wisely and happily question the way of doing we have been following.
One should learn to question our actions.

 Pause, stop, and take a relook at what we’re doing and don’t blindly follow what we think are our values or what we are doing and do not allow yourself to be blindly led by others.

We are so involved with our pattern and therefore we end up without true fulfilment.
That is why we need to question any and every action

The urge to be secure creates more insecurity and chaos. Can one see this deeply?
The “self” if we go little deeper we will understand that it is nothing but our thought.

Thought is an expression of memory, thought is conditioned by conclusion, dogmas, opinion, likes and dislikes.
Thought, therefore is not free for it is bound by its concisions and dogmas and hence the self is not free. This bound “self” creates disorder and chaos. If one sees this totally and non- verbally then intelligence will be born and that will end the egoistic self. We will begin to become aware of the higher self i think.



What really matters in the end......? How well did we love, how fully did we live and how deeply did we let go?”

All the three are golden rules of wise living. Life goes on inexorably and before we can comprehend and appreciate its functioning and profundity, it is time for our exit.

Desire for wealth, power and fame never seem to be satiated, leading to discomfort, discontent, frustration and inner turmoil. The beauty of life remains untapped and life just passes by in mindless pursuits of desires.

We have compelling propensity of dwelling in the past and brooding about the unseen future, thereby neglecting the present.

Past is a graveyard and the future, inscrutable. We need to abnegate them fully, only then can we siege the golden opportunities of the present and move on in life.

Largely our behaviour and beliefs are the result of mental conditioning. Our mind gets conditioned by our previous experiences with people and events and accordingly forges opinions which, with time, ossify into convictions.

We need to sincerely let go our prejudices, grouses, biases, anger, jealousies via reconditioning of our minds.

 Undoubtedly, wealth in certain measure is required for comfortable living. We do not have to abandon wealth. What we need to give up is our greed and possessiveness for material objects. We need to relate to them with mental resignation. They should be a means for life not for life itself.

Similarly we should let go of our attachments. Attachment is essentially a selfish love.

Replace attachment with love which is pure and altruistic. Love does not claim possession but give freedom. So just think and live.    


Time flows; no one can stop time.

One should do those things that give us deep satisfaction .That’s living a meaningful life. Just money will not give us a real satisfaction.
Besides, cultivation of more compassionate attitude will give us genuine satisfaction.

There is too much of stress. The more educated we are, the more expectations we have (and others have of us), our hopes and fears too are intensified because of memory and intelligence.
We should use our intelligence in such a way that it is a source of happiness not aggravator of anxiety or stress.

Real happiness comes from within and not from money and knowledge. Pay more attention to common experience, common sense and then go deep inside the mind and realise that compassion brings us all what we need.
Whether or not we believe in life after death ,this life should be something meaningful for us , the way we spend time should make us feel genuine satisfaction...


There are two main aspects of human pursuits....wealth and enjoyment.You chase wealth
and once you acquire it you wish to enjoy it.

The whole world is frenzy chasing after enjoyment.The more you indulge the less you enjoy.The way out is mindful,regulated contact with sense objects.
So the thrill of sense enjoyment does not diminish. Your honeymoon with life never ends.

Attachment is a root cause of all conflicts.Attachment springs from a deep sense of insecurity.When you are not self sufficient you need support..Your closest relationship become conflict ridden.... so attachment is not an option .

The way out is detachment or" true love''....no expectations., no demands...
Insure yourself in, by investing in higher thoughts keep the company of good people , enlarge your circle of love and constantly reflect on the distinction between the  permanent and impermanent aspects of life....... and move to the state of infinite bliss   



All of us complain at one time or another. But there are some people who complain, regardless. Complaining is a way of life ,one does not stop cribbing where ever we are ,whatever we are doing, or whatever is happening to us, we keep on complaining.
Nobody understands me, nobody appreciates me, nobody knows what I’m going through, nobody cares, nobody helps.......

Those who complain constantly do not wish to take responsibility for themselves and their actions. Ask them why their goals are not accomplished, and they will come up with excuses.Their energy and intellect is so focussed on finding faults that they cannot focus on achieving their goals.
One should stop focussing on all that is wrong and focus instead on all that’s right ,stop cribbing about what we don’t have and look instead at what’s there for us,lets appreciate people for what they are .
When we criticize and complain we invite negativity in our lives.Our imagined ills become our reality.But the reverse is also true.
When we talk positive success actually begins to shape for us.Positive emotions like Love and Gratitude enhance our strength.
Become less a complainer and more a thanksgiver, then our problems will get managed.

So why not invite good things in our lives,as the acknowledgement of past blessings seems to be the activation of new blessings..........



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