POINTLESS PHILOSOPHY………SO IS IT
I become quite surprised that people judge other people based on the work they have done in the past or based on their own opinion based on their likes and dislikes. One really can’t do that as life is a process of change and evolution. People grow and learn.
Sometimes in life we reach a point where one does not want to go ahead with anything in one life. I think it is at this precipice that what kind of person you want to be and that is when you discover yourself, you take yourself out of that equation and start focusing outwards, conquer your mind, which keeps saying ‘NO’ and you try to push yourself forward.
Ask yourself….what can I do about it right now/how can I make my life better and the answers come .Do every single thing that you don’t feel like doing .Every single thing that you do not feel like doing. Every single thing you don’t feel like doing….do it. Mental muscle is a fantastic aspect if you form a blue print in your head. Just start thinking that there is nothing that can happen in my life that will affect me negatively. Believe that even the most disastrous thing can only put you down for not more than 10 minutes. There will be a point in a life when the model of your world may change and you may not be able to see the way forward. Because you have been looking at it in a way that you have been trained to look at it.
You have grown up with a philosophy of work hard, gain success has a family and that is equal to happiness.
But the model breaks and you have to realize that you have to be happy first and all the other things will follow.
Love should never disempower you. If you are loyal to anything in your life, it could be your career or to a person, it pays back no matter what. Don’t fear Being Human.
All our life we close ourselves and try to protect ourselves too much, so much so that one turn into being this Nice Person….There is a big difference between Nice and Good person. A nice person will be nice to be every one …why? Because that person wants everyone to like him/her as he/she thinks that he/she has so many flaws and she/he is not good enough and does not have any self esteem or self worth so he/she has to be nice to everyone as he/she wants to love or like him/her.
Nice people always suffer all their lives as they will be pleasing other all the time and will tire themselves completely. A good person has his/her self worth, does good for everyone but will never please. He/she is there to go good to everyone and does the right thing.
I WOULD SAY ‘DO NOT BE NICE'…… BE GOOD